By Ms Jheri Worldwide
Staff Writer
On Saturday, May 31st, the NC Black Alliance hosted its May edition of “The Queen’s Table Brunch Series,” and it was an experience that resonated deeply with the promise of its design: an intentional, exclusive gathering for women rooted in connection, culture, and profound community care. Stepping into St Mark’s Church in Smithfield, NC, the vibe was calm, sincere, and fragrant florals adorned by an abundance of flowers that hinted at the beauty and growth to unfold.
Inspired by the Seven Principles of Kwanzaa, this month’s brunch centered on Ujima – Collective Work and Responsibility. This powerful principle was thoughtfully woven into a vital discussion on Black Women’s Mental Health, a topic handled with incredible grace and insight. Guiding the conversation was the esteemed Reverend Yolanda Murphy, a local author and healthcare advocate whose work, including her poignant book “Still Standing: Dealing with Grief, Loss, and Sickness,” provided a powerful foundation for the day.
What transpired was far more than a discussion; it was a collective exhale. Reverend Murphy, along with our host Faith Howell, cultivated an atmosphere of profound honesty where women shared stories of real and impactful loss. The dialogue courageously addressed the unique ways Black women navigate their emotions, particularly within a society that often compels a facade of unwavering strength, regardless of the personal battles being fought. There was an undeniable sense of shared understanding, punctuated by heartfelt hugs and, yes, some cathartic tears – all held within a circle of unwavering support.
The brilliance of The Queen’s Table was not just in the dialogue but in the tangible acts of care. In a particularly moving segment, attendees were invited to build flower bouquets, infused with a motivational message. Then, in a powerful embodiment of Ujima and sisterhood, we were encouraged to “give another woman her flowers” – a deeply symbolic gesture of recognition, encouragement, and shared strength.
As the event drew to a close, the sentiment was universal. Everyone left full from brunch, from the word, and with a bouquet to keep them encouraged. It was a holistic nourishment for the body, the spirit, and the soul. The attention to detail, from the elegant tea attire to the pervasive sense of solidarity, crafted a truly memorable experience.
My deepest gratitude extends to the North Carolina Black Alliance for their unwavering commitment to continuing to create space for the community to connect, build, and grow together. The Queen’s Table offers not just a momentary reprieve but also tools for integrating self and community care, information on vital resources, and a subtle yet firm reminder of the political lens through which mental health equity must be viewed.
I, like many others who attended, eagerly anticipate the next iteration of this exceptional series. For any woman seeking a sacred space for meaningful dialogue, leadership development, and collective healing, The Queen’s Table is an invitation to be seen, heard, and deeply valued. Check out North Carolina Black Alliance on Mobilize to learn of more events.
